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okay i know i was a Di ck earlier with my other questins and i am sorry about that if it affended anyone.
but we just found out my mom has cancer and if she dies me and my little sister go to my real dad i think. i refuse to go with him from things that happened before so is it possable to leagly go with my step dad who is married to my mom? my sister wants to go with r dad, but she cant unless i do(agian courts desion following things that happened before with his drinking). is that leagal to stay w/ r stepdad?
Also, my little sister is taking this hard, and i am trin to be strong even tho yes we do fight alot. what kind of things can i do to help her keep her mind off of it? any suggestions?
aaron.
im a guy btw
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March 1st, 2008 at 3:54 am
I am really sorry about ur mom.. But I dont think you can go with your step dad.. For your sister, try talking to her but try to not fight and to be the best sister…Good luck and God Bless
March 2nd, 2008 at 2:42 pm
I am very sorry to here that. I did not see your question before. Im usally in the wrestling section…. But stay strong . I should take my own advice but like people say its ok to cry. I refuse to cry.. im a tough cookie… Just be there for your sister and stand up for what you beleave. Everything will be fine and what ever happens happens for the best. But always think there is someon out there that always has it worse then you do. Hng with freiends to get ur mind off it.. But you cant run away from your problems because they will find you
Xo Mickie Lee
March 5th, 2008 at 5:54 pm
I’m sorry to hear about your mom… maybe you should be talking to your mom about your concerns and see what she has to say. Stay positive for your little sis and understand that she has her side of things too and needs you more than ever at the moment you are the only person who understands what she is going through that is close to her. Not sure about the legal side of things, its different here in Australia. But, again, talk to your mom about how you are feeling so these things can be discussed and sorted out if it does happen that she passes away, but try and stay positive, I’m not sure on your moms diagnosis and how bad it is, but people can survive cancer. Good luck.
March 8th, 2008 at 1:55 am
I am so sorry about your mom my mom had cancer too but she fought the fight 1 or 2 years ago. I am 14 and you can not help keep it off your little sisters mind off of it. Just do thing to distract her. Good luck and God bless!!
March 8th, 2008 at 10:57 pm
it will all be ok hun thers a strong possibility that she willsurvive good luck and god bless p.s. just be strong and comfort your sister
March 9th, 2008 at 8:10 am
I’m really sorry about your mom. My mother has Cancer as well. I think you should stick to the positive. Maybe she wont die, my mom is doing perfect (knock on wood) and she has had cancer for almost a year now. She is storng and beautiful as ever.
I’m not gonna lie, this is gonna be a hard, long process. It will most likely contain surgeries & numerous treatments of chemotherapy or radiation. I’m one of 5 kids, and my older brother and sisters first mother died of breast cancer. Things worked out just fine for them, they are happy and sucessful.
I think you should talk with a concelour or something. Or possibly even your mother. Because they can give you real information on what happends if your mother dies. Im sure your mother would never put you with someone you feel uncomfortable with. I’m sure if anything happend you could stay with your step dad, but your going to have to get it worked out legally its not a process of “because i want to” its a long, legal, thing. I know it sucks..but i’ve been through it.
As for your sister, she is prob. more scarred than you are. You should have a talk with her and say that your doing what you think is best for her, explain to her about your father and the horrible things he has done. I’m sure she will understand, after all shes family.
Good luck and im sorry you have to go through this. I know TONS of people who had cancer, and luckily i know more survivors than diers.
March 11th, 2008 at 5:47 am
sorry to hear that you can go with your stepdad if he adopts you and your bio. dad agrees